slummingitwithk said: I just had sex with the guy I've been dating for a little bit, he's younger than me and I was disappointed in his size but I feel like if he knew how to use it that the sex would be better, I can tell he's not as experienced but I still really like him and the sex wasn't terrible so I think he has so much potential. What are some ways that I can work on his sex game without murdering his pride or ego?
Gently guide him.
Initially you don’t have to come out and blurt it out, but when you’re intimate you can position your body to where you want him to go, guide his shoulders and chest, play with his hair and position him. If it’s natural for you to moan and sigh, do that. Let him know that he’s pleasing you when it’s something you like. He’ll pick up on all these body signals. It’s instinct. Take little breaks and kiss, laugh and flirt to prolong the encounter.
When it’s a new relationship, there might be that little awkwardness until you get comfortable with each other’s bodies, rhythms and likes. I think you’re totally on track in investing the time to see where it goes. And I love that you’re totally considerate of his feels and potential. Take your time and have fun. Focus on what really turns you on about him. That mental seduction is so important, the physical part is the cherry on top…